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Monday, 14 December 2009

  • Natural Skin Care



    It's winter where I live, and bitter cold to boot. And as all women know, with the cold comes dry skin. Fear not, lovelies! Nature has provided a scrumptious solution.

    Your skin is your body's largest organ, and it absorbs everything you put on it. My mom always told me to "never put anything on your skin that you wouldn't eat." I think she's right... but I don't know about you. I don't really want to eat my moisturizer! (Have you ever tried to read those ingredient lists? No thank you!)

    That's when I discovered coconut oil.



    I have extremely dry, eczema prone skin, and I have never been so happy with a moisturizer in my life. I rub it on from head to toe after I shower at night (it's a little greasy), and I wake up with soft, happy skin. And what's more, it smells positively divine! It's gentle enough for the most sensitive of skin, and you really can cook with it!

    What do you think. Would you ever try coconut oil?

Saturday, 05 September 2009

  • How To: Conform in College

    Now I can't speak for all universities, but the view from where I stand is pretty grim this year. There are always trends that sweep through campuses like a bad odor (last year's Uggs and leggings combo, perhaps? [I will never apologize for speaking the truth on this matter. Don't even try to convince me.]). This year is no exception! Two weeks into the semester, and I can already tell you how to look like everyone else on campus. It's easy as pie!

    First off, you'll need the basic white, V-neck tee



    Pair it with a pair of Nike Tempo shorts



    A pair of Sperry topsiders



    And to complete the look, top off your hair with a bumpit-ponytail combo! (Thick cloth headband is optional).

    I just can't wait until it's cold enough for people to pull out their North Face jackets!

    What do you think, lovelies? Have you seen this look a lot?

Tuesday, 28 July 2009

Monday, 11 May 2009

  • Deeper Than Skin

    When people compliment me on my complexion, I can't help but smile. They have no idea what it means to me.

    I have battled numerous skin diseases throughout my 19 years. Eczema, acne, and allergic reactions just to name a few. But these are all passing nuisances, really. Fairly easily treated with medication and tender loving care. They vary in severity, but I've always known that no matter how much my body itched, or how disgusting I felt, that it WOULD eventually go away.

    Not anymore.

    Two years ago, I began noticing some spots developing on my chest and sides. I passed them off as moles (though that didn't make any sense, because neither of those areas have seen much daylight. I've never worn anything that would expose the affected areas.), and continued with my life. A few months later, I went in for a standard dermatologist appointment, and decided to mention the spots to him. He took a look, and before I knew it was diagnosed with a skin disorder reserved for men and women 2 or 3 times my age.

    There is no cure. There is no prevention. Science has made no effort at researching this particular disease, as it is associated with old age. Try explaining that to a 17 year old who was just trying to get ready for prom.

    I have now had 7 tumors cryogenically removed, but I find more every week, and sometimes daily. At times they'll grow rapidly, and at times they'll remain as small as when they first appeared. They are now on my breasts, sides, back, neck, and stomach. And there's one thing that I know for sure: they haven't stopped coming. And will never stop coming.

    I told a good friend of mine and when they asked to see I obliged without hesitation. They first words out of their mouth were "Ew". Those are the words I hear every time I look in the mirror when I get dressed in the morning. When I rub my hand along my curves and feel them, I can't help but feel that same sense of revulsion my friend felt.

    I don't know why I have what this disease, but I don't think it really matters. What matters is that I have chosen to look past these scars on my body, and look in the mirror with pride and dignity. I won't listen to any more voices that would tell me anything different than what I firmly believe: I am beautiful.

    Friends, YOU are beautiful. Beauty is so much more than skin deep, make-up deep, shoe deep, or fashion deep. It is that smile that you wear in the morning that says "I am beautiful. I am confident. I can do anything I set my mind to.

    Beauty is so much deeper than skin. I hope you can see that.

Tuesday, 16 December 2008

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